Her ex is still in the picture
We have been dating for a few months now and things have been going great up until now. The other day we were having a serious discussion and she told me that she still hangs out with her ex boyfriend. In the past she told me that she cut all contact with him, other than facebook. Then she suddenly comes out and says that he has been over to her house and has even visited her at work. She told me that there is nothing going on between them, they're just friends.
This upset me obviously because she told me before that they weren't talking. Why would she tell me all of the sudden? I asked her why she denied it in the first place and she said it was because she was afraid that I would leave. He did some pretty awful things to her so it confuses me how they can even talk. I asked her why she talks to him and she said because if she doesn't he will keep pestering her with txts, phone calls, facebook messages, etc. It sounds like a lie to me though. Why not just tell him to go away?
I feel really uncomfortable now. Do my reasons sound well founded?