i need a mans opinion, as i dont understand the way they think. -cheating!
I was involved in a long term relationship. Over a year. Madly in love.
[I just posted this in the love forum]
Thought the world of him, and things were perfect. He goes on Holidays overseas and in, just past a week.. He kisses another girl. He was drinking, which doesn't been **** to me. He told me this, a short time after appearing distant. Something was wrong, and i could tell he was avoiding me. When he told me, (via webcam) my heart just shattered.
I've never felt so hurt in my entire life.
We talked, and i asked questions. He was honest, he answered them all. He didn't know why he did it. He intended to simply wish her a good night, after spending the day together as friends. He said that it was nice for him at the time, to get some interest from a girl like her. But after he realised what he did... He was deeply upset, and said it was the greatest mistake of his life. He was a wreck about it. As, was i.
I said i needed distance. He said he will do anything to fix it. He has been regretful, and i am just in so much pain.
Can this be fixed.
How can i trust him again?
Is it true, once a cheater always a cheater.
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Guys, i just wan't to get his view across. I want to understand why he did it, and how men think?
How would you handle this situation, if you were him?