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Ive been with my bf for 6 months and I gave him my virginity. 1 month later i find out I have an std, he says he didnt know, and after doing research men normally dont have symptoms of the std. This really broke my heart, i know he didnt mean to but it still hurts. like i cant even tell him i love him anymore, even tho i do. do you think time will heal this wound or would this be toxic. its gonna be hard 4 me to get over it.
It depends on what the std is. If it's the herpes virus (which has no cure) then you have to consider if you would ever resent him when you have your occasional outbreaks. If it's a curable std, then you should forgive him as he didnt know. Either way it's a real strain on the relationship. Breaking up will not erase the fact. The key is whether or not he knew before giving it to you.
i dont think it would be right to break up with him, but you feel how you feel. if you cant handle it and are gonna hold it against him forever then yeah break up with him cuz its just gonna cause problems