Am I a witch??

My partner always puts me down in front of friends, saying that I dont allow him to do this or that, that I am a control freak and he's the golden boy in the relationship! He forgets to mention that he never lifts a finger in the house, never makes dinner, has bathed our son 3 times in six months, the only thing he does is go to work. The rest is my job, I go back to work after maternity leave in 7 weeks and dont think I can take doing everything.

Also I hate the fact that he's very passive aggresive, he starts an argument by saying something like "you sure your coping ok" or "is your period due" knowing that I have a short fuse and will start shouting, he then makes it out that im the crazy one and hes the innocent bystander...Is it just me thats a witch??? x

So, ah, don't shout at him when he (intentionally) pushes your buttons? I mean, obviously, if you're the one flying off the handle it makes his argument much stronger.

But he pushes and pushes saying really rotten things he knows will wind me up but "hey he's always just kidding" he's very laid back otherwise and outsiders tend to think that Im tha bad one bcos he comes across as Mr nice guy..until you have to live with him!!