Totally confused

So for exmaple been seeing this guy for 2 years but known him 3 years, its been on and off but he doesn't want a comitment, but he wants to see me more often (he lives 2 and half hours away) and says thing like for example i said to him he had bad memory and he would miss his wedding day so he was like "lol probably and imagine if it was you and i stood u up bcos i forgot" I don't understand what he wants he also asks me what i want for my future etc to whcih i say husband, kids a good job and i said thats ages away yet as i dont have any of that so he said "not that long if u look around you" to which i thought he was suggesting him then a few weeks down the line he says his worried about where i think its going to go?!

Stop wasting your time. Find yourself a nice man with a promising future.

Not sure if he is good at talking. It's understandable if he is very shy or not good at talking (especially in front of girls). Othersise, it's better to find someone else.