So I met this girl online. She contacted me and we really hit it off I guess. We talked for a few weeks online and then decided it was worth meeting up. That turned into us spending most of the afternoon together and the 3 days following it. By the next week I was sleeping over consistently for a 2 or 3 weeks. We have not physically been having sex because I want to wait. (yeah, I know.) I have been going through some rough stuff the past few weeks and she has been nothing but supportive the entire time. I finally start to get back on my feet and she has been talking about going home and how excited she was. Its been about a month and I already know that if she leaves its going to be bad when she comes back...gut feeling. We have/had a pretty awesome level of communication, if there is a problem we just put it on the table and its squashed. She left this past weekend and we had a busy schedule over the past week. So trying to be considerate, I gave her space to get work done and get ready to leave, knowing this would probably be my downfall.
She came back and didnt let me know she was even back safe, let alone that she got there home safe. I tried to talk to her via text just to see if she was okay, considering she might be really tired. All of a sudden (I knew it was coming) she was very short with me. So I let two days go by and I got nothing. So I jokingly engaged in conversation and it turned into sort of a very cold shoulder ordeal. So trying not to pry, I stated I cared and simply said how I felt she was being sort of distant. She took 20 minutes to reply with can we talk about it tomorrow. I didnt return her text. I guess my question is this: Why is it when girls go on vacation, the guy has to start all over again or better yet, is the bad guy? This were really good. Not some jaded perception of good. She was always asking me to come over even though we were having sex. How the heck did I get reduced to two word responses and a lack of her even wanting to tell me whats going on?
