Can any body tell me that how we can judge girl in just 15 o 20 min..
what are the most spcifice question we can ask to her so that we knw her more better to become life partner?
is der any other way to understand her in just few mins?
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Can any body tell me that how we can judge girl in just 15 o 20 min..
what are the most spcifice question we can ask to her so that we knw her more better to become life partner?
is der any other way to understand her in just few mins?
The skinnier she is the more of a gold digger she is.
The bigger he boobs are the better she is in bed.
Goodluck.
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Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
What girl (98) means is you're crazy if you think you can "judge a girl" in 15-20 minutes to determine if she's wifey material or night. Hell, people discover 15 years into a marriage that they're wife isn't wifey material or vice versa. Takes time to get to know people. Generally speaking, if it only takes 20 minutes to get to know someone, they ain't worth your time man.
You can tell a lot about a woman's character based on how she treats the staff in a restaurant. Does she even bother to look at them when they bring something to her? Does she thank them? Is she dismissive of them? Is she demanding and short? impatient?
Also, when you open a car door for her, or someone holds a door open for her, does she thank them? Does she hold the door for someone else if she gets there first?
You won't be able to tell if someone is a match for you based on this criteria, but you can certainly tell if they are spoiled, demanding, and self-entitled.
I disagree to an extent. I can read people very well and I can tell a lot about a person in a twenty minute conversation. When I first met my last gf, in about 15 minutes, I figured out (and I'm reading this off of what I wrote back then) that she was not shy or outgoing; she had a few close friends, rather than a lot; kind, friendly; secure with herself, not pretending to be someone else; trusting, mature, patient; more male friends than female; not interested in drama or materialistic things; etc. I was right about every single one of them. There's probably more things I was able to tell, but that's all I wrote.
^Yeah, It would take me 20 minutes to suss out a guy too and if I asked all the 'right' but subtle questions in that spate of time. It is surprising what we can give away and without realising it. Not that I'm saying I'd know him after 20 minutes, but I'd get a general idea of his character and what he was about.
Also pay attention to the way she treats pets and small children.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I knew within half an hour of meeting my wife that I was falling in love with her and wanted to spend my life with her. Dunno how or why, but I did. Part of it was how she treated her children.
It's realistic to weed out people in 20 minutes. They can be totally disgusting and rude, and immediately you know he/she is NOT right for you.
However, it takes way longer to decide if someone is right for you. I was married for 12 years to a woman who was very cruel to me. When
I met her at age 19, I totally thought she was going to be good for me. Boy was I wrong.
Awww, you want a good mother to your kiddies....naturally :)Quote:
Originally Posted by HeartIsAching [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's more a matter of being able to divine a person's character more easily by the way they treat their inferiors than by the way they treat their superiors or equals.Quote:
Originally Posted by xxazurexx [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
lolz . . . what a ****ing answer yaar.. . means to as arrange marriage purpose...
cn u give me sum idea or sum tips to judge on basic level.... plz?
Completely impossible.
You can give a VERY basic judgement in such a short time, but you can hardly rely on that judgement.
Are you planning to go to a speed dating session or something?
You will NEVER be able to judge a person based on 15-20mins let alone an entire day or even one week! People are complex.
If you have to ask these questions I question your motive for wanting to be with a girl in the first place?
How to talk to a girl? Be:
-Spontaneous
-Adventurous
-Confident and Assertive
-most importantly: be appealing and a good listener.
If there are very loud red flags then you should avoid her. Other than that, you shouldn't make assumptions about her based on first impression because that is VERY deceiving. It takes years to get a good feel of what how a person is truly like.