Meeting up with Ex GF for lunch/coffee this weekend. Need advice!
Hello Everyone,
So after a 4.5 years relationship my girlfriend dumped me over a small fight that triggered her emotions about our future. She said she doesn't see me taking this relationship in the direction she want us to.
There are still some unanswered question such as:
1. After 4.5 years, why couldn't we work things out? Why the panic?
2. What exactly brought her to make this drastic decision?
So, as you can tell, there still isn't any closure for me. I feel that this relationship can be repaired and I think she just panicked and jumped the gun. I want her back!
It's been 3 1/2 weeks since the break up and we pretty much had NC (we exchanged texts once) throughout this time. So, I finally called her up yesterday and ask her out for lunch this weekend. She accepted and asked why? I replied that I need to know what happened to us after all these years. She thought it was a good idea to meet in person.
My question is, I want her back, what is the best way to approach this situation? Should I just be honest and tell her how I feel and attempt to sweep her off her feet? What should I do?