Originally Posted by
SelflessnHumble
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HUGE mistake dude.
Read the Art of War or something dude.
First rule when dealing with people: Don't EVER show your hand to them!!!
DO the math dude, she did sleep with someone else...However, you weren't together so she has no obligation to abstain from sex, does she?
Obviously you don't have to like it, but seriously man.
Read this:
Me: Hi, Babe. I've missed you and I want to be with you again!
Jenny: Me too! I love you so much!
Me: So have you dated anyone while we were broken up (huge mistake to ask)
Jenny: Yeah, nothing serious though. What about you?
Me: Naw, I just focused on school and stuff.
Jenny: Aw, really?!?! You're so sweet.
Me: So look...since you did date someone...did you sleep with anyone during our break?
Jenny: Uh, well.... (I interrupt)
Me: Look, if you did sleep with anyone then it would be over for me and I could never get back together with you...
Jenny: (silence)
Me: You can tell me, it's cool.
Jenny: Well, now I know what to say if I want it to be over, huh?
This makes no ****ing sense right there. ^^^ Oh, actually it does!
See, she wants to avoid telling you the TRUTH in fear of you reacting to the news and dumping her. See that?
Next, she lies to you (using anxiety as a bullshit excuse) to avoid the inevitable confrontation and confession of her sleeping with some other dude.
It took her so long to contact you because she wasn't done ****ing the other guy.
If you want to take her back?
Drop the issue. You weren't together so you need to get over this petty excuse not to be with her because she chose to get out and see other people
instead of sitting on the toilet 24 hours a day moping and crying for you to call her.
If you can't sleep? You think actually putting a face and a name to the image banging your girlfriend is going to make you feel better? Really?