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This is my first time here. I'm needing advise. My bf of 2 years who I live with has been distant and I recently found he has been talking to a female coworker A LOT through text messages and random phone calls. I have confronted him and he said that she is having problems with a daughter and needs his advise. My question is should I believe him since he kept this a secret or should I stop fooling myself and realize he may be cheating.
Well those are signs to point in that direction. I wonder why he'd be so distant towards you though. "Distant" in what way? You live with the guy so does it mean he's rarely home and rarely talks to you?
If he is being distant with you then that is a good indication he is having an emotional affair.
Think about it.....he's in constant contact with her....um trouble with her daughter? that would have any man interested in that for maybe a few mins.....there's more motivation there that daughter problems hun.
If it don't feel right, then it's not.