my ex is having a hard time with our break up :upset:

I cried like a little girl when she broke up with me and she didnt even shed a tear (we broke up b/c we driffted apart) we talked like three days later and she sounded nervous and she told me she had barely slept since we broke up and had been late to work and almost got fired I asked her why and she said "idk". my friend told me she confessed she had never been soooo depressed but felt like it was the right thing to do.

I on the other hand am alright, I mean here and there I feel really down but Im happier than I am down, I only cried the first two days and this happened a week ago...I can tell shes kinda like wtf b/c Im alright... we had been together for a year and a half this is the first time we break up...

We kinda switched places... b/c now im worried about her... I love her but I can live withouther but then again if she wanted me back I would run to her but she hasnt asked, should I let her get all depressed or what should I do?