Hi Im new and have'nt dated for 14 years!

Hi, for a few weeks I have read several threads and I like the range of advice from posters, so I decided to join myself...

Getting to the point of what brings me to this place is as follows,
Im 33yrs old and have a teenage son, I got married at 18 and then had an affair and left my 8year marriage because I knew he was up to no good either and we couldnt trust eachother.
After the separation things with my lover heated up again and we got together. Three years later we married. 2nd husband was always a little rough with me and told continuous lies. I really wanted it to work so I stayed, and stayed. Four months ago he got back to his old habbits and I had to leave. I wasnt ever truly happy and we fought like cats and dogs. I didnt leave earlier because I really wanted it to work. But I had to think of my own safety and that of my sons.

Now I have met a man who is 26 and we have been dating for 3 weeks. So I have never really done this before, not since I dated my first husband and I was 17!
I really dont know how all this is supposed to go...............

Bottoms up!