Tips on initiating intimacy
K, here's my problem. Ever since my husband and I had our first son, the number of times we've had sex has gone from everyday to about maybe once every few days to a week or so. And when our two sons are with their grandma's, we don't do anything because I wait for him to start it.
Last night, we decided to drink a few beers at my mom's house and she became like our therapist in a sense cause she's not afraid to find out reasoning behind things. Well, it got out into the open that my husband really likes for the woman to start off things like that...which is understandable.
My big problem is....I FEEL AWKWARD TRYING TO ACT SEXY.
Does anyone know of anything I can try to get myself to loosen up enough to not overanalyze myself and end up embarrassed? I just feel like I don't have enough eloquence to pull off sexy stuff. I know what my husband wants now, i just don't know how to get over these issues that I have with myself and my body.