Help for the clueless girl :(
ok, i'm new here, and new at all things romantic. heck i didn't even believe in love until recently.
anyways, there's this guy i kinda like that's almost perfect personality-wise and look-wise. i think i'm falling for him, but there are a few problems:
1) he's my best friend's ex,
2) he's not very good with managing money,
3) his grades are not that good at all,
4) he takes relationships way too seriously way too fast.
I’m a practical girl that searches for a guy that will provide stability to family life in the future. If it is only casual dating, that wouldn’t be a problem, but he is way too sensitive about break ups and I care about him too much to break his heart. He is so nice all the time though, and he really knows how to please a lady in all meanings of the word.
Now I’m caught in the dilemma: should I just let myself fall for him and suffer the possibly horrible future, or keep my emotional distance?
p.s.We are already best friends.