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I will be straight forward with this so I do not bore any of you!
Basically I see this beautiful girl at school.
-I'm a junior, she's a sophomore (high school).
i DON'T know her!
It turns out, however, my friend knows her!
-He's going to introduce us to each other when the time comes.
Now my problem is... Following the introduction, how can I proceed to, more or less, "woo" her? Attract her? Bottom line, date her.
Don't be afraid, don't be shy, be confident, be yourself. When you feel she gives you a lot of attention, ask her to hang out. Then proceed from there. A girl can usually tell if she like a guy relatively fast, no wooing time is really require. You just have to make a good first impression. She can sense if you are her type just by seeing you for the first time and talking to you briefly. So if she sees what she likes, she'll want to hang out with you to see where it would go. When you are out with her, show her a nice time, make sure to do stuff she'll enjoy, make her feel comfortable, listen to her when she talks, share something interesting about yourself, give her warmth with light touching, at the end of it go for a kiss on the cheek. Good luck.
Thank you, your post is really helpful but it brings up another question! Sure, it'd be great if she gives me her attention, but the problem is... Well let's say for example my friend introduces us, "Hey, purebaal, this is -Her-, -Her-, this is purebaal", I smile, shake hands(?), and then.. what?
Hows the weather? <-- haha, joking, possibly?
Like how do I move from that position?? Knowing me, it'd just get awkward and she will be like "Hi, nice to meet you" then go somewhere else to talk to her friends. Do i tell her she looks great? I'm not a wiz at this thing, at least not without sounding cheesy.
Say this: "fat penguin" and when she gives you a confused look say "I just wanted to say something that would break the ice."
Sounds like we have a lot of work to do. lol If you don't know what to talk to girls about, then even if I tell you what to talk about, you will not come off as natural at it. Your conversations has to be natural, it could be about anything that interests her. But here's what I would recommend you do. You should ask your friend to introduce you to her when you guys are out doing stuff, like for example, bowling. You don't have to talk much just have fun. You then can just comment on the game and make fun of each other on how you both suck. Stuff like that. If it's a barbecue setting, then ask her if she's hungry and you can grill something for her, ask her what she likes, ask her about her interests etc.. If it's a party, just ask her if she wants a soda or something.. grab one for her, then ask her how she knows your friend, then invite her to play one of the party games. Basically mix between doing something fun and conversations, esp if you are not much of a talker. That way you aren't going to come off as a boring guy. These are just examples, you get the idea. She'll like the fact you took charge and lead the evening.. making sure she is enjoying herself.Quote:
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Ah, thanks a lot man that last line pretty much gave me understanding of everything else haha "take charge and lead" it. Thank you!
Of course, and i apologize for double post, additional help would be nice!! =)