Head Games...

Hello All...

This thread tells the backstory between me and this girl...

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/52169-very-strong-feelings-someone-i-cant-have.html[/url]

I think I seriously screwed things up with her... That story is told in this thread...

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/52261-i-jerk.html[/url]

I"m sorry to link back to these threads. I know it's not that great of forum etiquette. But I am in a little bit of a hurry right now and don't have time to type all the background info between us.

I haven't talked to her since Tuesday... I was really starting to miss talking to her. I've been checking to see if she's online all night long. Finally she came on and I IMed her. Our conversation was three IMs long. She was friendly... but she didn't seem like herself. Then she just signed off abruptly and hasn't been on since.

I don't know if she's still pissed about the whole threesome thing or what. I saw her on Saturday and everything was fine. Better then fine in fact. I thought we had a really good time on Saturday. Now this. I don't talk to her hardly at all all week and when I do she brushes me off?

So, should I just step back and let her come to me?

I thought about sending her a short message just saying I'm sorry if I caught her at a bad time. Should I do that?

I care so much about her. I don't want to scare her away. I think I might have already...

Please help me out here.

Oh, and for those of you who followed my other thread... I have an appointment to talk to someone about legal help in two weeks.

I must really be hated here. Sorry all.

I don't know if it's that people hate you, I think it has more to do with people not wanting to "help" you cheat on your girlfriend.

Good luck with that appointment, though.

Ok, is no one replying here because everyone thinks I'm an asshole and has decided to boycott my threads or something?

Personally, i tend to only give advice on stuff i feel i have a good knowledge or lots of experience of. Your situation however is quite different to anything i've been involved with.
However, generally when a girl is a bit annoyed at you giving them a few days to calm down before getting in touch is the best way. You had a good time with her on Saturday? She then is short with you on IM? Leave her be for a few days, either wait for her to contact you or tentatively try again.