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Apparently I have this problem where I treat the girl I like too brotherly and end up in the friend zone forever.
So, simple question: How do I treat her less like a brother and more like a guy who wants to date her and be with her romantically? 15-17 Age range.
Flirt with her, matey. Brothers don't do that. ;)
With this girl I'm seeing we began as friends because I didn't really think I'd fall for her despite finding her very attractive right from the moment I first saw her. Well she started saying I was a good friend like a brother to her. But all that changed when I realised I'd fallen for her. I started flirting with her, taking her out for coffee/ drinks. She started getting nervous around me and has never used the word 'brother' again. And we've been on a few dates too!
Go out there and play your cards wisely. Good luck!
Flirt with her. Ask her out. Specifically use the word "date" if you are asking her out. Tell her that you are attracted to her.
The age group you are talking about is difficult because you get so many emotions bombarding you that you don't really know how to react. She may be saying she thinks of you like a brother because she doesn't really know what else to call her feelings for you.
I will say though, that normally, if a girl starts saying a guy is like a brother to her, chances are that is her nice way of saying that she is not into you romantically.
Good luck.