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Hi,
Well, I haven't had a date in six years and I'm now 20 years old. The most intimate experience I've ever shared with a girl is a kiss, so basically I'm still a virgin.
Would it be so wrong to pay an escort? I don't feel like I "need" to loose my virginity at all, I jyst really want to. I want to have that experince and I'll probally be waiting for a few years yet, that is, unless I pay an escort. I'm talking about higher class, attractive escorts.
Thanks
I don't think its a very good idea,
I was 18 when I lost my virginity and was 16 before my first propper kiss, when all of my friends seemed so far ahead of me
But the truth is everone exagerates, and it makes me feel better that there are guys like you out there, roughly my age who are not experienced,
I have only ever been with the same guy I lost my virginity to and I can honestly say one of the things that freaksme out about meeting someone new, (aprt form all the crazy in my head) is that they will be so much more experienced than me,
I guess this goes to show we are both wrong,
Losing it with an escort wouldn't make you 'good' or anything, and i know its cliche but saving it for someone you care about will be so much better,
Do you really want to lose your virginty with someone who is so desperate in their life thye have turned to prostitution, no matter how elegant it seems. Also they will likely be older. And even if not will you get the thought out of your head how many more people have been there before?
Also the best thing is learning how to have sex together with a partner you care about. Do you want your first time to be all fancy tricks? You will never have anything new to learn
Take your time it will be worth it in the end and you will know when the time is right xx
This question came up before, everyone told the guy not to do it, he didn't listen, and he ended up regretting it.. go ahead, do it if you will! :D
I can see both sides to this. We really make sex a bigger deal than it is. It all depends on how YOU will feel about the experience. That is all that matters. As everyone knows, men can have sex with someone without getting emotionally involved, it's harder for women to do that.
If it will make you feel better and help you to gain confidence, I don't see what harm there could be. I can also understand that it might be easier with a stranger. You can tell her your situation and it could be a much better learning experience than two people not knowing what to do and fumbling around! It's also not a bad idea on learning how to please a woman. If you feel comfortable with the escort, you may want to see and learn from over a period of time.
Follow your gut. It really is your opinion that matters, not ours. Do what you feel is right for YOU!
In an imperfect world sometimes we gotta do imperfect things
If you were a couple years younger I would say hell yeah, go for it. This same issue brought me here when I was 17 years old, and I'm almost 22 now. Still haven't kissed a girl. They can smell our virgin musk
Now that you are 20, I feel like you would need to fucck a few prostitutes quite a few times to properly catch up. If you have the money, go for it. If I had the money and wasn't so paranoid about STDs I would too
I've thought about and I think I may go for it, but not for full sex. Just maybe kissing or something. It's got the point when I'm happy if a girl even touches my arm at the bar, so an hour of kissing and touching will do my confidence a whole world of good. It's a confidence issue I have.
Keep us informed if you do. Also, as with even girls that you know, wear a condom
Nah, just your lack of confidence. Seriously guys, why pay an escort? You're young. Girls get drunk and horny. Even if you're ugly, god bless beer goggles. Go to a party. Pick out a girl. Be really nice to her and keep getting her drinks. Profit. Seriously, it's that simple. Be nice. Let her talk and just listen, encourage her to talk more. For the love of everything never talk for more than 10 seconds. Seriously. Act interested. Enjoy.Quote:
Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm with Gratedwasabi, since I got a little of confidence I find it's not that hard to get girls... Be nice, make them laugh a little, and they're in your pocket.
Not true. I made a couple of girls laugh a number of times at dinner tonight. Historically, nothing ever happens
How about a dating site?
All you need to do is state what your expectations are, and you will almost certainly find someone who will meet them. Would make for a much more meaningful memory..food for thought.
You are doing it wrong...Quote:
Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
This may sound illogical but I read that girls in the sex industry hates kissing their clients. Some will refuse. You may have to pay more for kissing than for sex. LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by josh44 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The danger with paying for sex is that you won't probably get much affection or tenderness during the act which can make the whole experience a trashy one...but if you don't set your expectations too high...and expect only sex for sex it might work for you...
Another downside is that paying for sex is like a shortcut...you're saving yourself the hassle to seduce a woman to bed and that is more important than the act itself in a man's life...
Why don't you try to find an attractive cougar? someone mentioned dating websites..there are many websites where people are freely admitting to only be after some fun and adventure...some women are so caught up wth career and kids (single mothers) they're happy to indulge in no string attached relationships...
About your situation, I think you are still relatively young. You don't have to follow the crowd. I have more respect to those who treasure their body than those who give it away like it's not worth much. Don't need to rush it but do what will make you happy which ever way you decide to go about it.