Just want to know if I'm missing something..?
So, it's Easter. I went home-home for Easter, and so did my SO. He had his kids, and we didn't spend the holiday together.
Earlier in the week we had agree to get together after we both got back to the city we'd go out to dinner, and I'd stay at his place..whatever. We didn't discuss times. All I knew for sure was that he had his children until just after lunchtime and he was planning to stop by a friends AND possibly a sporting goods store in another town before he returned to his place.
My family dinner ran long, and I haven't seen some of my family for a while so I didn't get back as soon as I'd have liked.
I sent my guy a text asking him how Easter went, he replied and asked where I was. I stated I was still with my family.
When I asked why, he simply replied that he had thought we were doing something, but it's not a big deal. He's just going to do some grocery shopping and go to bed early.
I wrote back just to explain that I wasn't blowing him off, and that we hadn't been clear on any times with each other, so I had no idea where he would be and when, that I'm sorry and had still planned to see him but he should do what he needs to do.
"It's fine, no big deal"
It's a big deal to me though. He says he thought we had worked out the details. Either way, no big deal.
I then informed him that I was on my way back to the city, even though it was probably too late to do anything.
"It doesn't matter, no big deal, really"
By this time, I'm getting miffy. Of course, all I want to hear is that I should still come over, or SOMETHING good.
So I spout off and show my attitude: "Fine. No big deal. I guess have a good night."
That blew up in my face big-time. All I got back was a 'You too.' I'm aware that I deserved that.
So here's my question..wtf??
I apologized. Explained why things didn't work out, at least from my end. And rushed back in hopes of seeing him tonight.
What the hell happened?