desperate need of advice

hello all. i am in desperate need of advice. for the past 5 years i have had a long distance relationship with a man i happened to meet on a chat line one night. he is also a lot older than i am i kno,ive been called everything under the sun and then some. we startedout as friends and then became boyfriend and girlfriend. its been kinda rocky but weve gotten thru it.

i live in iowa and he lives in michigan. but for the past 5 years, i have been in a relationship with him. i can honestly say that i truely do love him but i just dont think that the feeling is the same in return. he tells me that he loves me but i feel like hes just saying that to get me to sht up or stay happy.

ive brought up coming to see him andhe always tells me to wait till later. but im tired of waiting. i dont know what to do anymore.

i feel as if ive been led on for 5 years and im about to get my heart broken in the worst way. im so attached to him that i dont want to see anyone else. i know i must sound crazy, but i know that i love him and id do anything for him. i just dont know what to do in this situation. any advice is welcome that you might have.

how old are you and him? have you ever met him in person or has this just been a computer relationship?

Yea same question here, you loved him by Internet? Oh man he might be a busy man with 1 wife n 10 kids lol, and a beer belly :-S.

we have met a few times before in the past. i am 23 and he is 48. we talk everyday. and everything that is going on is just fairly somewhat recent.

He is over twice you age. Are you really that stupid?

He is over twice your age. Are you really that stupid?

How can you love someone that old!!! He doesn't make a real life plan with you, wake up he's not real, some meetings are nothing.... Maybe he's a pervert married man.

He's married and can't leave his wife and children at home alone.