Girlfriend Attracted to Another Guy...

Hello everyone,

I would appreciate your opinions and advice. I have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months and we are serious. However, lately she has seemed more distant and not as loving. I hate that I did this as I never thought I would but I looked at her text messages as my gut feeling told me something was wrong. In one of her messages to her best friend she said: "So today is the first time since me and John have been going out that I have felt any sort of attraction to another guy and I feel terrible but I can't control it."

Any thoughts on this? Should I be worried?

Thanks in advance for any advice.

The fact that your gf has felt attracted to another guy doesn't mean that she's going to leave you for that guy, it depends on how much she's felt attracted to him, and how much connection with you she's felt during the relationship. It might be just a moment of weakness, however, your gf feels terrible about it so you shouldn't worry that much. People sometimes get distant in relationships, it's normal. If you care for this relationship, work on it a bit more, show your gf how much you care about her and how much you love her. Good luck :)