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Simply put.....My friend has been talking to this guy for a while now. He has a child. One night while they were in bed together the baby's mother called......at the end of the convo she must've said I Love U, to which he responded Love you too.....
Yes, she was lying right next to him....
What does he think of her? Should she continue to talk to him?
Obviously they are still involved..Unless she is cool with being 'abit on the side'.. Then she should just leave.
Why would anyone even need to question whether to stay in this situation??
lol.....so they were just 'talking' in bed? sounds to me that your friend is doing a lot more than just talking to this guy for the last couple of months.
instead of ASSUMING your status with someone, you need to ASK the other person what the status of the relationship is. she assumed she had a boyfriend. she assumed wrong.
Since he was talking to his child's mother and said "Love you" it might not mean too much. They are obviously a large part of each others' lives through their child, and maybe they do love each other. But not in a romantic sense any more.
Basically, she needs to talk to him about it if it is bothering her that much. She shouldn't assume anything.
From a third person point of view, of course she shouldn't talk to him; however, from her point of view.. she might just want to stick to him as she already in love with him! =)