Head or Heart?

so theres one guy who is perfect for me, loves me unconditionally, looks after me, together for 10 years and would do anything for me.
then theres this other guy who isnt always there when i need him, may not be able to support me, but with who i have this intense conncection, that still gives me butterflies after 12 years..

i really don't know what to do...

head or heart?

So, you were together with 2 guys at the same time? Lol, or they are male friends?