Did I do the right thing? What do I do from here?
I really don't know where else to go to for help, so any advice would really be helpful.
Basically, I started talking to this guy and he kept pursuing me to hang out in the worst way (calling last minute, late at night, etc.) I denied him for awhile because I thought he just wanted to hookup and I told him I do not want anything like that. He said he didn't either and got better about trying to hang out (calling earlier, attempting to make some plan, etc) I decided to give him a chance and the benefit of the doubt. So we started seeing each other shortly after and things were quite good, then he got a full time job as well as going to school full time so basically he was really busy from that point on. If we saw each other once a week that was lucky. In between we would talk pretty much every day. But things got really annoying when he really wasn't making an effort or any plan to see me always blaming it on him being so busy. Everything was always last minute and on his terms. I put my foot down and we decided to stop seeing each other since it wasn't fair to me. He ended up calling me a few days later to apologize, tell me that he missed me, whatever...things basically went back to being the same way
Then things got weird again after I tried asking where this was going, he said he would call me later to talk and never did, so after many failed attempts on my part to contact him I gave up. A month later he pops up to apologize again, tell me he was going through some stuff and needed the time alone. We maybe saw each other twice after that and I finally had enough when he wouldn't call when he said he would, make any effort whatsoever. I told him that I'm not a convenience for him when he was available, I'm not an option like that and everything is done on his terms and I was tired of it. He never replied to me when I sent that through text because I knew if I called him he would tell me he had to go because he was "busy."
Basically, I want to know if I said and did the right thing. I know this person is an asshole and I don't want to be with him anymore, but why wouldn't he even reply to me? Is he just going to pop up out of nowhere again and try to hit the reset button with me? Do I attempt to contact him to reiterate and tell him I don't want to hear from him again??
I need help, please.
