I really like this girl, on a forum, but am worried I have screwed it up
I have fallen for this girl on a forum, and I am really chewing up over her.
I am a fan of The Kinks, and I joined up last year in october, after my Grandad died, I guess I just wanted to rant and rave on there with one querstion, but ended up a regular. I live in London, she lives in Eng;and too,not too far.
There is this girl on there, who is beautiful (to me) and intetresting. She has good taste in music and movies, and is intelligent. I started really liking her, then sratted thereads (lol, especially for her to post in) . She did post in them, especially my movie one, and we responded a lot to each other. I have seen her picture on one of her blogs (not that she knows) and she has seen mine on my you tube video.
I sensed in some of her posts that she liked me, not anything suggestive, but some of the wording. Only in a few.
I told one of the older forumers, in her 50's who has been lovley about it, giving me advice. She even guessed who it was I liked before I even told her, as she said she sensed "vibes" between us.
I went away to New York in March, and the week before I went she stopped coming on, and she was off fior a few weeks. It was her birthday when I came back from holiday, as it notifies you in the forum, so I started a birthday thread for her.
When she came back, she started responding to my posts like never before, reccommending me films when I spoke about them, in the threads, replying to my posts even if they were aimless.
One day in April, she posted a message in one of the threads, in public, out of the blue. I never discussed this with her in this thread, but she said this "'@ Night'sBeforeMe (my username),
I read about an event on at the BFI involving 1970's films and there was something about Clint Eastwood and it made me think of you; I cannot remember exactly what it was (an exhibition maybe) but I will try and find the link. I mean it will be at the BFI in London :)
I am currantly trying to find some interesting classic film events in the UK this year'
As you can imagine, I was pleased with this. We spoke more on the forum. Another time, she pasted a link to you tube, for everyone to see, saying somethuing along the lines of "I know some of you probably have seen this, but here's a tribute to a hundred years of films" I replied with "what an awesome video!" to which she responded " I knew you would like it :)"
Does she really like me?
But in the past few weeks she has been quiet, but has spoken to me on the forum. But in the past week, she has been dreafully quiet. Have I said something wrong? I have always been polite to her, never been suggestive, etc.
I am too sacred to PM her, for fear she'll tell me to get lost, whichh will mess me up. I grew up with the Kinks, and to liek someone who looks nice, and has a great personality, and likenThe Kinks...means alot to me.
What shall I say in my posts? I know she's still reading them as you can see peoples usernames when they are viewing the thread.
Sorry if I rambled on...any advice wuill be greatly appreciated
Cheers
:)