strict mother...boyfriend...need help...

So I'm 16 years old, will be 17 in a month and a half... my mom is really strict about me having a bf.. and i wanna tell my mom that i have a bf (ive kept it a secret for 6 months) bc its starting to get complicated to keep lying to her, and pretty soon i wont have any way to get to my bf bc of lack of transportation, u c my bro was always the one takin me over to my bf house.. but my bro will b moving soon... so he cant... and i have no one else that wud want to take me to c my bf.. so i wanna tell my mom.. but im afraid if i tell her she will try n stop me from seeing him.. can she actually stop me from dating him? and my bf said he wont let my mom stop him from seeing me, can he actually do that? idk.. i need some help plz :( im torn on what to do.. i dnt wanna lose him.. i love him and he says he loves me to..

Yup, she can actually stop you from seeing him. Why can't he come to see you?