Help me i'm obsessed with the thought that my girl is not a virgin
I'm an Asian and in general we consider a girl's virginity really important, we used to think of it as the most important factor of a girl and if she loses it then she's kind of a slu*. I know it's 21st century and hardly a girl is a virgin and I always say that it's ok if my gf is not a virgin but now I 'm facing it. I'm 19 and i'm a virgin. I really don't want to lose my virgin with some kind of escort or so, therefore I don't do anything stupid. I'm with a girl now and when we tried to do it, I can't because It's no so easy at first. She told me she was a virgin but now I know she's not. She seems very normal and ok that she's not a virgin. I don't know why I feel that it's terrible although I always keep st in my mind that virginity is not that important and if I leave her, it means I don't love her. I have thought so much about it. Plz help me to get over it :(. Any tips guy. I know some of u have been in this situation