Need advice about my relationship
I have met my boyfriend 5 years ago through a common friend. It was a sort of love at first sight. He was the smartest, most interesting person i've ever met. To be honest in my eyes he was a genius, and i think i really fell in love with his intelligence more so than with other qualities. But with that came one flaw: it's impossible to convince him that he is wrong, because he always uses logic and he always thinks he is right. I guess i also have to mention that he is overly protective of me, which doesn't sound like the worst thing, but because of that im not allowed to go out with friends without him or just leave my house for a walk. I sort of ignore his crazy requests, and avoid having arguments, since i cannot win them. But now...
With this little intro i would like to describe my current problem. I recently graduated with a degree that sort of hard to find a job with. My father was able to get an interview for me in his company, and they offered a position. But the problem is that it will involve travelling to remote areas for u to 2 week periods. After my boyfriend found out about that he told me that i am not allowed to take it if i don't want to fight with him everyday. He says if i take it i will be responsible for our relationship problems. So i feel if i wont take it i will hurt my father and possibly i wont get another such great opportunity, but if i do i will ruin my relationship and it will probably be best if we break up.
I dont know what to do. It pains me even to think to break up with him because of a job, but if i miss this chance i will hate myself for listening to him and eventually start hating him. Ii also believe that he is too stubborn to accept the nature of my job and just let go.
Please, help me make a right decision.:(
