Cheating ex-gf keep calling - what does she want and do I do
Hi dear ladies,
You were all very helpful here, I think I may your advice here again....
My ex-cheating-gf keep calling me. First time she called (out of nowhere) about 1.5 months ago, after 7 month of complete no contact - I didn't answer. then last week two times - it was hard but I ignored. Today she just called again three times (the last time from her friend phone ;) ). I ignored all of them. I already made piece with myself about what happened, but to be frank, my heart start pumping like a crazy when I saw her name on my phone (3 times today !)
My question is what do you think she wanted ? Didn't she get last week that I am not interested to talk with her (which is not completely true - cause I am interested, but I want her to come and look into my eyes and not hide behind the phone). But even if this what she planned to do, why then she just not simply send me a sms message or write an email an explain what she wanted ? Why insist calling me ? Should I call her back ? When we were together, I promised her to be her good friend no matter what. May be something happened and she really needs my help ? I don't know what to think.
A short summary: about 10 months ago she left to vacation to her home country, when I came to meet her to the airport she came back pregnant with her ex-bf. We didn't talk since then. I tried to reach her in the first 2 weeks, but her new (old) bf didn't allow her to communicate with me. Only once she called me hiding from public toilet crying and saying that she is sorry (still not sure about what)...I even don't know if she kept the baby...
Your advice on the situation will be very appreciated...