Why cant he be honest about his feelings??
Ok here goes, i have been very close to this guy with the last 3 months, we know each other for 10 years and get on great. He rings and texts every day from the time he gets up in the morning, we spend time together during the week and most of the weekend, we have also slept together twice in the 3 months but he just cant seem to be honest about his feelings even though he does things that make me think he wants us to be together.
He has a 3 year old child who i spend a lot of time around also. He is always asking if my ex knows that we spend all this time together and asks what does my ex think we are doing together, i dnt know why he asks this, he is a very insecure guy even though he makes himself out to be really tough which he is not.
He sent me a text recently saying "u live in the past get into the future i am not ur ex" and when i text back asking what he ment he told me to read between the lines, yet when face to face with him i brought this up and he made up a total crap story which made no sence as to why he text this also he was drinking when he text it and said i should take no notice of what he says when he is drunk. I really have enough of all this guessing work and was thinking of just staying away from him but i know its not easy for him to talk about his feelings and i really care about him, what do i do ?????