He won't have sex with me!!!
I've been dating my boyfriend for about five months. About three weeks ago he started taking Zoloft for depression and anxiety and it has completely KILLED his sex drive. He used to have a high sex drive and I really enjoyed our sex life. Now, he has absolutely none. I can hardly keep it hard for him for a few seconds. He says Zoloft is the only thing that has worked for him in the past and he can't go back to the doctor because his doctor isn't on his insurance and it's really expensive.
I have a very high sex drive and I'm very attracted to him. I hate laying skin to skin with him and not getting anything but hugs and kisses. It makes it all the worse because I feel so much more desire! I feel like I'm falling in love with him, but I also catch myself fantasizing about other men (and him) constantly. I wouldn't cheat on him, but tonight I texted an old boyfriend and we did some "sexting" and I feel terrible! I don't know what to do, but I feel seriously deprived and the fact that he never wants sex (despite being with me constantly) makes me feel unattractive. It was nice to get some sexual attention via text from my ex, but now I feel really bad! I don't know what to do though! It's fine when I'm single and not have close contact with someone I'm attracted to on a regular basis. Dry spells are okay then. However, when I'm always around him, touching him, kissing him, and being near me it just makes me crazy horny, unlike when I was single.
Anyone ever deal with a problem like this?