Facts: Multiple Male Orgasms
After reading many posts on this site about multiple male orgasms, I would like to share this information. Though I'm a woman and lack "the male unit" :::smiles::: I'm 35 and extremely confident in my sexuality/sexual knowledge.
This post is for all men who choose to share in the coming age of a more open era of human sexuality, and those who wish to enlighten themselves to a wonderful world of personal and shared sexual bliss. I know this post is long however, feel free to click at any time you feel it's no longer of any use.
You may have heard that women are blessed with the ability to have multiple orgasms. While this is true of many women, what you probably haven't heard is that men are just as capable of experiencing multiple orgasms, if they can only learn how.
Before you dive into the world of multiple orgasms it might help to know exactly what they are defined as. Multiple orgasms occur in succession without complete loss of sexual arousal in between them. For women, this means resuming sexual stimulation shortly after a first orgasmic climax, usually immediately or within a few minutes, so that a second climax may be reached. If the woman does indeed experience further climaxes during the same sexual encounter, she is said to be multi-orgasmic. Men have often mistakenly believed that being able to regain their erection as soon as possible after ejaculation and reach another climax within some arbitrary period of time qualifies as being multi-orgasmic. This is false because the true multi-orgasmic male does not lose his erection between orgasms.
The key to navigating your way through the path to multiple orgasms is figuring out just exactly how to separate orgasm and ejaculation. This involves the sexual miracle muscle, the pubococcygeal muscle, or pelvic floor muscle, or "PC muscle" as it is commonly known. If you don't know what this muscle is or what it does, next time you have to pee, stop the flow mid-stream. The muscle that stopped it is your PC muscle. If stopping the flow is difficult, then you have a weak PC muscle and you will need to work on strengthening it before you'll be able to have multiple orgasms. Do not confuse squeezing your PC muscle with forcing it to relax. If you squeeze or contract it, you should feel like everything deep in your pelvis is being drawn upward, rather than being pushed downward as if you were having a bowel movement.
Preparing Yourself:
Surely you weren't just expecting to sit down one day and start having multiple orgasms by accident! Having multiple orgasms as a male is pretty remarkable, but it will take a great deal of preparation. As mentioned earlier, one of the first steps you need to take is to discover your PC muscle if you already haven't. You need to become intimately familiar with this muscle so that you can learn to control it very precisely. Some of this control will come with experience, but most will come by strengthening it through regular exercise. It is probably best if you experiment with becoming multi-orgasmic on your own at first, however you are free to learn while making love with your wife, girlfriend, etc This guide assumes you will be masturbating. Go get comfortable, and start masturbating as you always would. Stop just before you reach the point of no return (the point where you would ejaculate). At this point, contract (squeeze) and hold your PC muscle for a count of ten. Let yourself relax now, and take a 10 minute break. Start masturbating again, this time bringing yourself just a bit closer to the point of no return, again contracting your PC muscle. Continue doing this, paying very special attention to your own state of arousal and emotional feelings. The key here is to learn more about your own sexual response so that down the road you'll be more in control of it.
The Million Dollar Moment:
Once you've brought yourself to the point of no return several times, you're probably ready to let it rip. The bad news is all that jacking off you're doing right now is just for preparation and self-discovery. The good news is once you learn how to become multi-orgasmic, you won't have to go through all this preparation because you'll already know what you're doing. Okay, enough excuses. Continue masturbating, except this time, keep going until you reach orgasm. Right as you orgasm you should notice several contractions that signal the beginning of ejaculation in the base of your penis and perhaps deeper inside of your nether regions. Right as these contractions begin or preferably just before, but during the orgasm, stop stimulation (this means stop masturbating and let go of your penis completely) and squeeze that PC muscle tight and hold it there as if your life depends on it. You'll probably feel yourself trying to ejaculate, but hold it back. Squeezing your PC muscle effectively shuts off your ejaculation, if you are successful, and erases the refractory period. Some semen may come out, even if you are successful, but it should not shoot out with the force it normally would during an unrestrained singular orgasm. If you were able to hold off ejaculating after your orgasm, start masturbating again now. It should feel like you're still very aroused and not like you just ejaculated. You should be able to continue for a short time until you have another orgasm. If this is your first time, let yourself ejaculate this time- hell, even Rome wasn't built in a day.If you were unable to keep from ejaculating the first time, either your PC muscle isn't strong enough yet or you squeezed it at the wrong time. If you begin squeezing too late after the ejaculatory contractions have already begun, it is nearly impossible to shut them off completely. With practice you will learn the timing. If you just had your first multiple orgasms, feel free to celebrate in any way you see fit, you deserve it! If you were successful, next time you masturbate see how many orgasms you can have. If you manage to have three of four and get upset that you can't have more, remember how many you were having before you read this guide!
Overcoming Problems:
Undoubtedly the biggest obstacle most men will report when trying to become multi-orgasmic is failure to squeeze their PC muscle enough during orgasm to ward off ejaculation. You may feel some contractions, but do not stop squeezing at this point because a few ejaculatory contractions are likely even if you are successful in eventually stopping them. If you are successful, the contractions will stop before you ejaculate and you should be able to resume stimulation without a loss of sensitivity, as would be present during the refractory period after ejaculation.
Another common problem many men may report with these techniques is failing to determine exactly where the boundaries of plateau, orgasm, and ejaculation begin and end. Obviously, if you cannot determine the difference between orgasm and ejaculation, a key to becoming multi-orgasmic, you can only succeed by accident and not intentionally. Some men may try to stimulate themselves very quickly and rigorously, and this is not the best way to become aware of your personal level of sexual awareness. Taking the stimulation slower rather than faster will allow you to discover your personal boundaries between arousal, plateau, and orgasm more easily. With these discoveries you will have a much greater chance of learning when to squeeze your PC muscle, when to stop stimulation, and when to relax your PC muscle and resume stimulation to experience another orgasm.
It is quite possible that if you have other sexual problems such as premature ejaculation, learning to become multi-orgasmic will help you tremendously during lovemaking. Not only will you be able to greatly prolong the session by suppressing ejaculation until you choose, but you will be free to release your worries and anxiety and focus more on pleasing your partner. The list of positive effects can be nearly endless!
The bottom line is that your ability to have multiple orgasms depends on your overall sexual awareness, and the strength and control of your PC muscle among many other factors. As with all noteworthy achievements, this is not something that can necessarily be accomplished all at once. While reading this guide and having multiple orgasms in one night is certainly possible, you should understand that it could take several weeks or even months before you succeed. Your results will depend on your own personal effort and determination.
Remember, above all else, have fun and enjoy yourself!
