Help, i have messed up!!!!!!!!!!

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06-07-11, 01:59 AM
cantbreakthis

Help, i have messed up!!!!!!!!!!

Hello, i'm new to all this.

1 month ago i split up with my bf in a terrible way, i did it via e-mail to avoid the conflict of doing it face to face.

Surprisingly he took the news rather well considering but that aside it wasnt left on the best of notes.

After a week of no contact i decided to text him to see how he was he was and tell him i still cared. i was gutted when he didnt reply and i havent heard from him since.

I guessing he's moved on so i need to do the same but i miss him so much i dont want to make first contact. perhaps he thinks ive moved on

I'm so annoyed, has anyone got any ideas
06-07-11, 02:11 AM
HeartIsAching

He's punishing you for the way you broke up.

Why do you care? You broke up with him, move on.
06-07-11, 02:17 AM
cantbreakthis

Yehhh well i regret it now!
06-07-11, 02:47 AM
Mathias

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Originally Posted by cantbreakthis [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Yehhh well i regret it now!

Not much you can do about it.
06-07-11, 03:11 AM
cantbreakthis

but what do you think he's doing or thinking? do you think i should try and contact him?
06-07-11, 03:19 AM
IncognitoSir

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Originally Posted by cantbreakthis [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

but what do you think he's doing or thinking? do you think i should try and contact him?

Nope, you broke up through email like a coward....this is your karma. He's doing the right thing by NOT contacting you. why should he talk to someone who doesn't even respect him enough to break up with him in person? Learn your lesson and move on, I'm sure he is in the process of doing the same seeing as how he hasn't don't so much as even text you back.
06-07-11, 03:21 AM
cantbreakthis

well what do i do now?
06-07-11, 03:41 AM
Jolicoeur

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Originally Posted by cantbreakthis [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

well what do i do now?

There is only one thing you can do. Talk to him, face to face this time. Tell him you are sorry for the email. Tell him you regret breaking up with him. Be honest, be sincere. Ask him to take you back.

You have only one chance, and not even a big one. But if you do nothing, you'll have not even that.

Just out of curiosity, why exactly did you split?
06-07-11, 04:24 AM
BackUpOrGetStng

Leave the poor guy alone, you've already hurt him enough. If you can't live with it, you should just kill yourself.
06-07-11, 05:01 AM
cantbreakthis

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Originally Posted by Jolicoeur [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

There is only one thing you can do. Talk to him, face to face this time. Tell him you are sorry for the email. Tell him you regret breaking up with him. Be honest, be sincere. Ask him to take you back.

You have only one chance, and not even a big one. But if you do nothing, you'll have not even that.

Just out of curiosity, why exactly did you split?

cos i thought i was better than him
06-07-11, 05:23 AM
IncognitoSir

trolling season i see
06-07-11, 05:27 AM
cantbreakthis

so it's completely gone now?
06-07-11, 06:43 AM
Rabbitt

If you thought you where better than him than yeah I wouldnt even try. In a relationship both are equal. Remember that for your next relationship.
06-07-11, 06:51 AM
cantbreakthis

what will he be thinking, come on someone must know
06-07-11, 07:07 AM
Jolicoeur

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Originally Posted by cantbreakthis

cos i thought i was better than him

How did you think you were better than him? Better looking? Smarter? A better person?

And why do you miss him now? Did you realise you weren't? Or is it the idea he might be with someone else?