Write the reasons why you're better off without your ex :)

It's easy to get caught up in the good times and long for those times again once a relationship is over. So I thought I'd make this so we can all remind ourselves that the times weren't all good, they are exes for a reason and they are NOT worth putting on a pedestal and waiting around for.
:)

Sorry if there's a thread like this already, if there is just delete this!

__________________________________________________ _______________________________________________

Your new girlfriend put Justin Bieber song lyrics on your facebook wall, as a genuine display of affection and not even as a joke. And this pleased you. You think that you love someone who acts as though she is 5. That's made my day, I am definitely nothing like her and if that is what you want then I am honestly thrilled to bits to be out of it!

because i dont need her to be happy

One of my biggest issues was the fact that I had been trying to quit smoking for quite some time. My ex announced every few months that she was going to quit and I told her I would support her every time by not smoking either. She'd last two-three days and end up smoking and then feel like she may as well just keep it up. That weekend she would be waving cigarettes around and of course trying to quit when you're drinking can be a lost cause. Not to say it can't be done, it's just harder. Anyway every time that I wanted to quit she told me I was trying to exert control on her habits. We got in so many ridiculous tiffs about smoking. I still haven't quit completely but I've made up my mind to and the luxury of not having her around means I won't have anyone else putting that temptation in my face.

It's another reason that I don't imagine she'd ever come back. She'd feel we'd still fight over something she has no desire to quit.

'Cause she's a top class bozo.

I don't feel better off, to be quite honest.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Lifetime [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I don't feel better off, to be quite honest.

---

Likewise....

Let's just say that I have a lot of fun with the voice commands on my phone... I can punch the button, say "Call Horrible Bitch" and my phone says "Calling... Horrible... Bitch..." and I giggle like a schoolgirl.

1. Because I found a guy that actually knows how to do guy things.. so I don't have to anymore :)
2. Because I no longer have to pick up after someone else!
3. Because I realize I am happier without them. (This took some time and a rebound relationship...but I am at peace and feel happy.)

Because you belittle me to make yourself feel better....while it makes you look like a fool

Because someone who can just end it without any warning, completely out the blue and be so cold to someone who they shared so much with over 2 years is not worth another minute of my time.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Emmalina [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Because someone who can just end it without any warning, completely out the blue and be so cold to someone who they shared so much with over 2 years is not worth another minute of my time.

---

Same !

Mine left me with no warning, Just out of the blue exactly a month ago !

She isn't wroth another second of my time.
She is the most selfish person i know.
She lies to everyone.
She played me a treat through the break up.

I am better off because she was an emotional bully.

She is better off because I hate her so much that I would try my best to make her life a living hell if she ever tried to contact me again.

Because he was and still is an absolute f**ktard. = )

Cos he made me feel like crap and not good enough and he has huge issues which I no longer have to deal with. They will one day be someone else's problems.

Also better off as I now get to do things I want to do, don't have to watch shit movies, more time surfing and spending time with my friends, more time to concentrate on my studies, more time to travel wherever I want to go and lots of time to start loving myself again and rebuild after he shattered my self-esteem.

1. I can never drink a beer again, not even socially.
2. She has gained weight and is not taking care of her seld.
3. She has been with 4 men since I have met her. Different from me.
4. She will drain my bank account.
5. She will never come to my home.
6. I dont like the things she does.
7. Her mom and sister anre like her, man hating evil women,
8. I will gain weight.
9. I dont like being around her.
10. I will get hurt again.