We have been dating for a year and a half and I have not met his family or any of his friends. Why is that? He said his mom is a bitch and the rest werent worth meeting. He hangs out with his brother all the time but im never invited.
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We have been dating for a year and a half and I have not met his family or any of his friends. Why is that? He said his mom is a bitch and the rest werent worth meeting. He hangs out with his brother all the time but im never invited.
To quote Chris Rock: If you've been dating a man for four months, and you haven't met any of his friends, you are NOT his girlfriend!
You're the dessert dear, not his main entree.
Mmm, I am giving myself a new policy of never introducing any future significant other to my family. I know for a fact my family *will* cause problems, so life is simply easier to not introduce.
:( im so confused! TheTooya I like your answer better but my gut tells me Lite is right! I think he has something to hide!
If thats the case, tell him you really want to meet his brother, and go from there.
Yea... Like his real girlfriend/wife/live in partner...Quote:
Originally Posted by scaredgirl [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Scaredgirl. Insist on meeting them. If he says "no" then listen to your gut. It's trying to tell you something.
I heard that excuse for four years, and then I found out that there was another guy. He was the one who got to know her friends and family.Quote:
Originally Posted by TheTooya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
For me, the rest of my family is in Japan, so no point charting a plane for my girlfriend to meet them. But really, there are "deal-breaker" families that you don't want your s/o to meet. I now know, with solid experience, that my mother will aim to destroy any relationship I am in.Quote:
Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But... your story sounds really shitty/sad :( Oh well, hope people in the future won't take me as insincere for shielding them away from a shit show. :p