Not feeling the sexual chemistry?
My girlfriend has always taken things slow and our sexual endeavors have been scarce and often unsatisfying... but neither one of us are the type that focuses solely on sex, we both agree its important. But when it comes down to it, it just doesn't really go off for us, and when it "fails" we just kinda laugh it off and go watch TV but... I can't help at some point to wonder, are we better off best friends or girlfriend/boyfriend? can someone with similar experiences share? Because I can't even recall the last time I really wanted to have sex with her or fantacized about her, even before we started doing sexual things, she always seemed like a best friend to me before a sexual partner.