Are they worth getting back together with?
Here my brief situation; I meet a girl at uni we feel deeply in love; that has never happened to either of us before; we had a few issues in our relationship the major issues was one regarding the guy she got with when i first met her; now shes gone home for the summer; she broke up with me saying she loved me too much and that she need time and space and that we are both young and should not be this tied down we need to live life and if we are meant to be we will be in the future.
She says she still loves me and wants to marry me but wishes she meet me 10 yrs in the future after she lived life; Even thought she loved me more than anything in the world she broke it off with me when she went back home and it got a bit nasty e.g. calls text removing each other off facebook;
However each time we argued after this she'd mention when coming back to uni she might what to see where things go e.g. get back with me or have a sexual relationship etc. Then sometimes she sed she really didn't know; So i eventually changed me tune and turned around and sed no goodbye and good luck with your life am not waiting around and i dont want you back.
Her response was i never asked you to wait i want you to live your life and be free and if in the future we are meant to be then we are meant to be; I responded with no luck in the future with that goodbye.
Next day i get a phone call asking a favor; we then went on to speaking i stood my ground and still sed you'll never get me back which she tried to get it out of me i still want her back (mind games) i sed nope even though i kind of do i knew that if i sed yes i wouldn't get her back cos that'll just give her hope for when she comes back to uni.
However we are back to talking as friends now it's been just over a month since our break and i learnt that she has slept with the guy who i stated before caused us some issues she says she is single and she doesn't what a realationship with him. Obv i told her its heartbreaking and again this is the reason why i don't want her back;
I now think she still wants that chance in 2 months when we are back to uni to get back with me; but after she has slept with that guy after only been broke up with me for a month i think that is awful; However i don't know what to do? would i be able to get back with her knowing that (i know she's not cheated but still it hurts)?
what do you guys think?
