Need Advice please... do I tell her I read her journal and learned of her affair?
Here is my situation... my significant other for 3 1/2 years and I have had what appeared to be a "soul mate" relationship. We are unfortunately in a long-distance relationship and see each other about every 2 weeks. However, the other day I stumbled across her journal (which was actually on the top of the night stand) and I opened it up and read it. I discovered that she wrote about an affair she had with a co-worker while at a conference 1 1/2 years ago. They had sex, and she was even worried about being pregnant after. The co-worker is also a distant co-worker of mine.
So, clearly I should not have violated her privacy by reading the journal. However, I'm obviously losing my mind with the knowledge that she had the affair. In addition, just a couple of months ago she said in her journal that they still have been texting, and she even cried when he wrote some love-related texts and then texted similar responses back.
I need advice please. Do I tell her that I read her journal and learned of the affair and her on-going feelings for this co-worker?
Thanks