Everyone, please put the age of yourself and your partner at the top of your post. We need to see if there are medical issues happening that are normal for your age, or abnormal for your age. Plus, our advice will change depending on your age. Because some issues are issues about simply having less experience.
Repeat: if you create a new thread (post), please put your age and the age of your partner in that very first post in that thread, with your question.
Thanks.
(Mods, please sticky.)