I have been with a person for 4 years now. I have been living with him for 3 years. My dilemma is that I love him, but think that I am doing him no good. I am not happy with my life, and feel I am dragging him down with me. Should I take a break and move out? I am so scared that he will resent me. I used to see a future between the two of us, now I cannot see anything ahead of myself. I know that he loves me to death, and I feel like I am rude to him because I am trying to deal with what I have. He has done me no wrong that would cause me to act this way.
MAYBE - I don't know what else could be out there for me?
I am terrified that I will not find someone out there that is right for me when he is a good man to me and I threw it all away.
I feel like maybe I should live a lone for a while and see if it changes my feelings for him. Do I need his support? Yes, but I don't want to hurt him either in the process of him trying to help me out. What should I do??? HELP!