I want to get my ex boyfriend back
Hi, my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years and have lived together for 2. He left me abruptly 2 months ago,
the reasons he left were unclear for a quite a while and i'm still not 100% sure i know all the reasons now. Its been a pretty crazy time and ive made a lot of mistakes since he left. Mainly by acting irrational and pestering him. Needless to say its pushed him farther away and hes said some pretty harsh things. I.e we are never getting back together and to move on. When he 1st left there appeared to be some hope of reconcilliation but i think ive blown it by pushing things.
It doesnt help that we also work in the same building as eachother. We are still in contact slightly. Just odd txt msg's to say hi. I sent him an email 2 days ago to say that i've acted irrationally and i see that ive been pushing him away and im sorry. I said that i'd give him his space and we'd both get on with our lives.
i dont really know what next steps to take, he is quite a complex person and is not a talker. I'd also go as far to say hes not good at dealing with his emotions. Bottom line is hes shut off and i cant reach him. We did have a very good relationship but he said hes been unhappy the last 6 months as hes felt unappreciated amongst other things. He doesnt believe anything will change.
any advice would be greatly appreciated, i love this man very much and feel we've just lost our way.
Thanks