Is he interested...please help??
OK, here's my situation.
I've been in my current job for about 18 months, when I started it I was in a long term relationship with the father of my two children...however this relationship has since ended.
A few months ago, I noticed someone I work with ocassionaly looking at me a lot and paying me quite a lot of attention, without sounding big-headed..I'm quite attractive and do get a fair bit of attention from men, and so didn't think a lot of it at the time. But just over a month ago, a friend of mine told me that she had a conversation with him and he told her he thought I was "amazing" and "way out of his league", which is sweet considering that he is very good looking himself!!
So I decided to ask him out and see how things went. We had a really good date..we sat and talked for what seemed like hours, we had loads in common, and sat laughing about tv shows we watched when we were children. He gave me his coat coz I was cold and put his arm around me as we walked along the road...it seemed pretty perfect.
As we said goodnight he kissed me (a really good kiss).
Everything seemed fine, a couple of days later I invited him to a party, but he couldn't make it as he had a prior family commitment, but said he would like to spend some more time with me, and to let him know when I was free, so we've spent the last couple of weeks sending messages back and forth via mobile phone.
The thing is last week I asked him out and he said he couldn't make it but would see me at work on the Friday night, but when I got there the boss had sent him somewere else for the night...feeling a little rejected that he hadn't contacted me, I sent him breezy a message asking him out one night this week, nearly two days later I got one back saying...
"I'm gonna be busy this week, but I'll see you at work next week and we can catch up then. Hope you're ok, take care x"
Is it just me or does that sound a bit like "i've changed my mind"?? Take care sounds like goodbye to me, if thats the case, then I don't get it...apparently he's liked me for ages, and jumped at the chance the first time I asked him out. I know he's single, and I've not seen him since our date for him to decide he dosen't like me. It's not even like we slept together, then I would be thinking that, that was all he wanted, but in my opinion there is more to come in our relationship. I've not made any demands on him at all, and just wanted a bit of fun and to see where things may go (most guys idea of heaven I would have thought?!)
Am I paranoid, or have I been dumped? :sad2:
Please someone help, it's driving me crazy....what have I done??