Trying to Repair Relationship : It's Hard

Greetings all,
I am new to this forum but I was hoping to get some advice on this situation I am in. A few months ago I was seeing this girl who I really really liked and it came to a screaching halt, mainly my fault. I waited a bit long, a couple of months before I realized I needed to apologize for my part. I e-mailed her, as that's about the only way I can communicate with her at this time and I told her I was really sorry and issed her but I did not imply we should try things again simply because I didn't want the e-mail to seem like I was doing this only to get her back. She hasn't replied as of yet and I don't know where things stand. Should I wait a few days, and if she doesn't respond, send another message telling her that I woudl like to try to start things over and see where they go? I just don't want to come across as being too obsessed with her and needy and what not. But I really have strong feelings for her and I hate to see something that could be good go to waste by doing nothing else. Any advice?
Thank you all

Tell me what you mean by "your fault" and that you needed to apologize for your fault.

What happened?

hey man, relax its not the end of the world or something!! i'm assuming u had a fling on the side to mess things up right!! then u totally deserve shit, and she's better off!! but i usually stand up for guys, so i guess its that time of the month for her something, or u just plain started becoming boring for her or something!! well man u did ur part, just mail her telling u want to meet up and stuff, probably to collect yer things or retuyrn hers....she should realize that things r better off this way, both of ya r gonna b happy!!

Wow. That was deep.

Yea, what happened between you guys and that will determine how many/when to send e-mails and contacting her.

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