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Hie all. I'm taking this girl from work out for a movie this coming weekend and i was wondering how i could leave a much better impression on her so that it'll be something like the best date ever! Usually i look them in the eyes when we're talking, taking her out to dinner and movie(the usual standard..) then perhaps sending her home. Is there anyone who can give me some pointers? ;)
well congrats u just entered the same 'ol boring routine.......ok man i'm gonna give ya some life saving pointers....maybe the next sap u take out......ok listen firstly ur not giving an interview, and don't listen to anyone to say be yerself, unless ur the few who know how 2 play it right....since u work this girl, u kinda broke the sacred rule of not dating co-workers, coz things can turn ugly, if she isn't 'satisfied' and worse if things don't work out 4 the both of ya!!
i hope u did bit of research into what she likes, maybe she likes watching sunsets, or dancing, or bowling, or one of those rides where u throw up afterwards....the trick is to explore her world and show her a little of yers, not all of it...some may not b so pleasant!! Another point don't give her a position to say no....for example, if u guys end up going for dinner a little late, don't ask her if she wants to go for dinner, tell her ur feeling hungry and give her the option of choosing between say..chinese or mexican!! And son't worry bout silence, it happens to the most fun of groups. and if find it odd staring at her eyes, stare at her eyebrows...makes the staring easier...and don't make a big deal out of anything...remember diappointment is as natural as getting laid..the thing is u should give her the impression that even if she sez no, u don't make a big deal out of it, don't whine when she wants to go home and ask her why?? just say ok, and tell her u have to get together with friends or something...always make a back up plan.....that way ur night won't go to waste even if u don't get her that night...and lastly don't suck up too much, be a little chivalrous, like opening the door for her, being articulate when ordering food, but at the same side, u should b funny and well tease at times.....it works wonders, i wish i could give u more, but anyways i hope things work out for u dude!!
Wow that sure is alot of tips ya giving. lol. thanks alot knightlionheart and i hope e suggestions still keep on comin`!
ur welcome dude, anything to help out me mellowfan.....i mean fellowman(pun intended), well let me know how it goes yeah!!
tattoo your name somewhere on her. THEN she'll remember you. ;)
Yeah.. she'll remember me as the guy whos really crazy about her. Well.. the most i can do is scare her off real good.Quote:
Originally Posted by D'Artagnan
there is nothing wrong about work relationships. I started one almost 2 years ago, and its going great. We are both in love. Work never was an issue. I'm now in a new job. but its still great
There's usually nothing wrong about work relationships if they WORK. It's if you split up they are more likely to become a problem.Quote:
Originally Posted by shyone