How do you bring up a looming issue?
Hi,
I have a concern about a long-term relationship that I've been in. We've been living together for about a year. Everything is going really well and we make each other happy. More and more I get a feeling like he's going to pop the question. But there is something about him that has been on my mind lately. He was charged with a DUI about a year ago and it ruined both of our lives. The charges were revoked, but last weekend while I was out of town he admitted to drinking and driving again. I honestly don't believe I could go through what we went through the first time ever again. I stressed my concern to him but now I'm wondering if he's even capable of stopping. I feel like I want to sit down and talk with him about how worried I am. I am willing to believe that its his personality and that this could be the beginning of the end of a wonderful thing. I just can't believe he would keep doing something that is so careless...
Advice?