don't know what to do :(

Okay, I haven't posted here in a while. So me and my boyfriend have just recently come back from a holiday of 2 weeks. Everything was perfect, no arguments and we were happy. As soon as we come back, we havn't stopped fighting. He seems to think the problem is me all because i tell him my feelings. He can't communicate with me, he gets angry whenever i mention them. He says some horrid things too, that actually makes me cry. It shouldn't be that way. Its getting me down It's like i can't open up to him, he tells me too but when I do we end up fighting. The annoying thing is he can't see he is hurting me. I have tried talking to him but he puts the blame on me because I've been quite a rubbish girlfriend in the past but I have changed. I have only seen him once in nearly 2 weeks hoping he will miss me or something. Its our 2 year anniversary next week, I don't want to throw all that away, We've been through so much, Any advice please?

What happened since you came back from the holidays to make him change like that?

Nothing, he just went weird on me. Like I said I just tell him my feelings. Should I be worried?

It's a bit strange that he seems to have changed so much for no apparent reason... What does he say when you ask him why he's acting so strange all of a sudden?

he just blames it on me, saying am so negative all the time which I don't think I am :/ it's so frustrating :(

Well I suggest that, at the very least, you tell him clearly that you are feeling bad in this situation, and that perhaps he needs to figure out what he feels for you since you don't think if he loved you he would treat you like that. If he says he isn't treating you wrong, tell him that the simple fact that he doesn't worry (or notice) about how bad you feel - regardless of the reason - is in itself an indicator of the fact that he doesn't give you enough attention or caring. If he says he understands, give him a chance and see how it evolves in the next couple of weeks. If nothing changes, take some distance. If he doesn't understand, take some distance straight away. Tell him you'll come back when (and if) he's ready, or something. It's no good to keep a relationship going if you're feeling miserable and unloved.

ah thankyou so much for that great advice! I've been distant from him for about a week really but I'll tell him straight. Thankyou again

No problem :) hope it works out ok, good luck!