Urgent advise for a hot girl needed
Hey guys! I need your help :) so I am extremely attractive...to the point I am intimidating to guys who usually wont approach me in person....I get the word gorgeous a lot..Im fairly self aware and confident. But I wasn't always... hence I would always settle for less than handsome guys...Since i am newly single and own my own company (not much time to meet people) I joined a dating site which I get a ton of emails from daily..have met a lot of attractive/successful men who all ask me for second dates and seem very interested in me but I am becoming extremely picky. Recently I was messaged by THE most gorgeous guy who on paper seems AMAZING..He is litterally a Greek god I am soooo attracted to him (finally a challenge! since the rest seem to fall to my feet...) so he added me to FB..we exchanged numbers...we chat all the time usually on FB but he text me a few times a while ago....He asked me out on a date twice and I was thrilled...BUT stupid me decided to play hard to get seeing as I am SOOOOO interested in him...( BTW he has tons of very pretty girls constantly commenting on his FB photos and Posts) I kept thinking RED FLAG/PLAYER...Warning! but we chat a lot and he seems real and down to earth...according to him he got out of a 4.5 year relationship about a year ago..and is now looking for a relationship (or so he says ....still skeptical) So we chat every single day and he is always the one who initiates the conversation on FB...but we have never talked on thephone ( i even mentioned this to him once that: I would like to see if he has a voice...as an enticing joke to see if he would call) He never called...... He has not asked me out since the first two times and I am dying to go out with him.......another weird aspect is that he deactivated his FB account or so he says ( I thought he had blocked me) after again I tried playing hard to get by blowing him off and decided to be a mean and sort of leave him hanging mid way through a conversation. At which point he "deactivated" his FB account or Blocked me for 10 days.....he re added me and I asked him about it he said he got in to a bar fight and was worried about his friends commenting about it on FB because of his family finding out...I honestly think he blocked me to get a reaction....? Another strange thing about him is that he was constantly talking about penis size and joking about its importance.....I never paid mind to it until it became so apparent that he wanted to make a point he was well endowed...I though he was showing off..but then he told me he was 11' and that it has been a problem in the past and that he is a bit insecure since the women he sleeps with don't really enjoy the sex the first few times......He seems to be truthful about his concern...I just dont know why he doesn't ask me out again (i made it very clear I would like to meet him in person) , why he has never called on the phone and do some men just have these online relationships as a game or distraction to pass the time? Is he really interested in me???? We have been communication Forever it seems ( at least a month) What should I do? I really want to meet him...I even threw out an ultimatum that I no longer wanted to be his chat buddy (in a sort of joking manner).....PLEASE HELP ASAP!!!! I cant get him off my mind ( I am dating a few other men and I make it very apparent on FB posting photos of the flowers I recieve or checking in at the fine dining restaurants where I go to dinner or events I attend with my other dates to sort of stoke the fire and make them all compete) Could this be counter productive???