Please post your age, also punctuation
When asking a question, please post the ages of you and your (potential) bf/gf. Our advice varies by age.
Also I have some thoughts on lack of punctuation. Some smart/cell phones do not have punctuation keys and that's why you do not see punctuation sometimes. The poster is doing it via their cell phone. Some cell phones do not even have a period, and some of the older ones post in ALL CAPS! But I haven't seen that in a year or so.
So, it's not necessarily the problem of the poster, but the poster's hardware (phone). So go easy on them. Also, I haven't tested this, but some cell phones may post all in one single paragraph, which explains the LONG paragraphs we sometimes see. I'd like to know which brands/services do this so I can avoid them.