Where do I stand with this girl? Did I blow my chance?
Did i blow my chance with this girl?
so i met a girl on a dating site about 4 months ago. we talked on there for a few months then we added each other on facebook and talked on there.
We got to know each other quite a bit by talking and I decided to ask if she wanted to go do something. We decided on miniature golf.
We went and had a fun time. She was shy, but got more comfortable as I kept talking to her.
When we got done and were leaving she gave me a hug and said it was nice meeting you. i agreed and asked if she would want to go bowling the next weekend. she said yes i think we should and i said is it a date then? she said yes.
then I jumped the gun and made a mistake. I asked "should we make it official then?"
Now by this I meant to say, where does she see us at? She wasnt sure what I meant and I aske dif she saw this as a date and she said she thought I just wanted to meet her. I said yes I did and apologized for asking that and she said its ok and gave me another hug. we both said we will see how it goes next time.
when i got home the night i texted her saying i had alot of fun and it was nice meeting her and we will have to do something again sooon and she agreed and said we will have to hang out again soon.
im afraid i ble w my chance when i asked "if we are official". i did not want to look clingy or desperate.
we have talked since that day so part of me feels like she didnt see it as a big deal.
so heres my questions
1)where do you think we are at? just getting to know each other?
2)did i blow my chance at dating her aksing that??
3)is she interested at all?
