What to do if partners friends are a bad influance?
I know it's very important in a relationship for each partner to get along with the other's friends, but what happens if you believe them to be a bad influence?
If the friends spend EVERY weekend getting completely drunk, sleeping around and just generally not acting in any decent way, having no morals, etc. What would you do?
The majority of my partners friends are like this, and while it shouldn't perhaps be a concern, she has depression and in the past she had a couple of breakdowns and they really didn't help matters, constantly encouraging her to go out drinking with them when ever and where ever possible.
Due to outside circumstances, she has lost a lot of contact with them, but I do find if she has been speaking to some of them for a day when she returns her language is terrible and she acts all 'tough'.
She has once or twice said that they are a bad influence, but I still feel uneasy when she talks to them (we live in a small town). How should I deal with this? I realise I could perhaps be being unreasonable, and it's not like I'm asking her not to talk to her friends, it just makes me a bit uncomfortable.